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Summary
Author Biography
Jay Carter, Phsy.D., DAPBS, is a psychologist who has treated couples and women for decades. The bestselling author of Nasty Men and Nasty Women, and a sought-after motivational speaker, Dr. Carter has made numerous appearances both nationally and internationally. He has also been a guest on "Larry King Live" and "The Montel Williams Show."
Table of Contents
Acknowledgments | p. ix |
From a Student | p. xi |
From the Author | p. xiii |
Overview | p. xix |
The Invalidator | p. 1 |
Portrait of an Invalidator | p. 3 |
Methods of the Invalidator | p. 7 |
Uncertainty | p. 7 |
Projection | p. 9 |
Generalization | p. 10 |
Judgment | p. 10 |
Manipulation | p. 11 |
Sneak Attack | p. 13 |
Double Message | p. 13 |
Cutting Communication | p. 16 |
Building You Up, Cutting You Down | p. 16 |
The Double Bind | p. 17 |
The Bigger Picture | p. 23 |
Self-Doubt | p. 25 |
Narcissism (Everything Is About Me) | p. 27 |
Chemical Imbalances | p. 29 |
Personality Disorders | p. 31 |
Invalidator: An Archetype | p. 32 |
Most Obvious Personality | p. 34 |
Less Obvious Personality | p. 35 |
Least Obvious Personality | p. 35 |
Identifying an Invalidator | p. 37 |
The Victim | p. 43 |
How Victims Are Compelled to Remain Victims | p. 44 |
Creating a Victim | p. 46 |
Right/Wrong Dysfunction | p. 48 |
Two Dancers: An Example | p. 54 |
The Cycle of Invalidation | p. 57 |
To an Invalidator | p. 58 |
Why You Are an Invalidator | p. 59 |
How Do You Stop? | p. 60 |
What Happens to Invalidators? | p. 62 |
To the Invalidated Who Doesn't Invalidate | p. 71 |
What Do We Do About It? | p. 75 |
Invalidator Boss | p. 75 |
Invalidator Spouse | p. 81 |
Handling Invalidation | p. 83 |
Confronting | p. 89 |
Repeat That, Please | p. 89 |
Tell the Whole Truth | p. 90 |
Get Him or Her Alone | p. 92 |
Mirror the Projection | p. 92 |
What to Tell Children About Invalidators | p. 93 |
Coping with Invalidation | p. 95 |
To Invalidation: The Mechanism | p. 97 |
To Invalidation | p. 98 |
Bibliography | p. 101 |
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