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Jay Carter, Phsy.D., DAPBS, is a psychologist who has treated couples and women for decades. The bestselling author of Nasty Men and Nasty Women, and a sought-after motivational speaker, Dr. Carter has made numerous appearances both nationally and internationally. He has also been a guest on "Larry King Live" and "The Montel Williams Show."
Table of Contents
|From a Student||p. xi|
|From the Author||p. xiii|
|The Invalidator||p. 1|
|Portrait of an Invalidator||p. 3|
|Methods of the Invalidator||p. 7|
|Sneak Attack||p. 13|
|Double Message||p. 13|
|Cutting Communication||p. 16|
|Building You Up, Cutting You Down||p. 16|
|The Double Bind||p. 17|
|The Bigger Picture||p. 23|
|Narcissism (Everything Is About Me)||p. 27|
|Chemical Imbalances||p. 29|
|Personality Disorders||p. 31|
|Invalidator: An Archetype||p. 32|
|Most Obvious Personality||p. 34|
|Less Obvious Personality||p. 35|
|Least Obvious Personality||p. 35|
|Identifying an Invalidator||p. 37|
|The Victim||p. 43|
|How Victims Are Compelled to Remain Victims||p. 44|
|Creating a Victim||p. 46|
|Right/Wrong Dysfunction||p. 48|
|Two Dancers: An Example||p. 54|
|The Cycle of Invalidation||p. 57|
|To an Invalidator||p. 58|
|Why You Are an Invalidator||p. 59|
|How Do You Stop?||p. 60|
|What Happens to Invalidators?||p. 62|
|To the Invalidated Who Doesn't Invalidate||p. 71|
|What Do We Do About It?||p. 75|
|Invalidator Boss||p. 75|
|Invalidator Spouse||p. 81|
|Handling Invalidation||p. 83|
|Repeat That, Please||p. 89|
|Tell the Whole Truth||p. 90|
|Get Him or Her Alone||p. 92|
|Mirror the Projection||p. 92|
|What to Tell Children About Invalidators||p. 93|
|Coping with Invalidation||p. 95|
|To Invalidation: The Mechanism||p. 97|
|To Invalidation||p. 98|
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